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A Journey of Growth & Joy

At Chabad at Monterra, we are dedicated to making the Bat Mitzvah process a joyful and unforgettable transition into Jewish adulthood. When a girl turns 12, she becomes Bat Mitzvah. No matter the starting point, we help every girl shine and understand what this beautiful milestone truly means.

Understanding the Milestone

Becoming Bat Mitzvah is more than a ceremony; it is a young woman stepping into her role within the Jewish community. Every student is different, and we work with each girl to reach her unique potential. By the day of her Friday night celebration, our goal is for your daughter to confidently:

  • Gain general Jewish knowledge (Kashrus, Shabbos)
  • Understand the special Mitzvot of Jewish women (like Shabbat Candles and Challah)
  • Read Hebrew and recite meaningful prayers
  • Understand the deep meaning of her Jewish heritage
  • Deliver a public speech with pride and confidence

The Process & Rates

Part 1: Preparation

The Bat Mitzvah Club (Grades 5/6)

The BMC is our comprehensive training ground, open to all families, regardless of where the ceremony is held. This social and educational program builds a strong foundation in Jewish literacy and ensures girls prepare with a smile.

Please note: Private lessons are available exclusively for BMC students.

Members
$1,800 /year
$1,100 /half-year
Non-Members
$2,100 /year
$1,500 /half-year
Register for BMC
Members Only

Part 2: The Friday Night Ceremony

Officiating & Sanctuary Use

In our community, we celebrate Bat Mitzvahs on Friday night with a special, beautiful ceremony. Hosting your event with us provides a warm, family-first experience. Rabbi Adi, Malky and Elky ensure that every detail—from the spiritual Shabbat service to the personal jokes—makes your family feel entirely at home.

*Ceremony fee includes use of the Shul in the JCC, officiating fee, and a Tree of Life plaque dedication. (50% due at signing, 50% due 30 days prior).

Reserve Date
(Non-Refundable)		 $150
Ceremony Fee $1,500

Enhancements & Extras

Parties & Packages

The JCC is currently working on exclusive Bat Mitzvah packages for Chabad members. Whether you are looking for hall rentals, catering options, or full event planning, we are here to assist.

Contact our office to help facilitate this process and explore available options.

 

Bat Mitzvah Checklist

  • Jewish
  • Be a member of Chabad at  Monterra
  • Know her Speech
  • Register for Ceremony
  • Scheduled date on the  Chabad at Monterra calendar

Frequently Asked Questions

What if my daughter has no prior Hebrew knowledge?
This is very common! Our "Mitzvah with a Smile" approach is designed to build confidence from the ground up. We ensure every girl feels successful and proud during her ceremony, regardless of her starting level.
Can family members participate in the Friday night service?
Yes, we love involving the family! During our initial planning meeting, Rabbi Adi and Malky will discuss the various special roles and readings that can be given to grandmothers, mothers, grandfathers, fathers, and other Jewish family members during the ceremony.
How is the milestone commemorated at Chabad?
Included in your ceremony fee, we honor this major life event with a beautiful, permanent dedication on our Tree of Life plaque inside the Shul.
Can I join the Bat Mitzvah Club at any point during the year?
No, there are two times a year when you can join:
1. At the beginning of the school year.
2. In January, after winter break. 
Note: New students may need to take private lessons to build the required skills to join the group.

Questions?

Contact our office if you have any questions.

Call: 954-306-6064